The State of Maine is an embarrassment.

November 5, 2009

So, we had a chance in the state of Maine to live up to our Latin motto: “Dirigo”, meaning “I direct”.

Clearly not a mandate, but a victory for homophobia nonetheless, 53 percent of Maine’s voters repealed the same-sex marriage on Tuesday.  The shame I feel for my home state is almost more than I can express.

We had the chance to show the rest of the nation that it doesn’t matter what consenting adults choose to do with their genitals and how that choice informs who they’d like to marry and share a house and a car and mortgage and a checkbook and a bathroom and a life with.  We had the chance to stand up and say, “Everyone deserves equal protection under the law in regards to marriage.”  We had the chance to stand up to the bible-thumpers and the voyeurs and the peeping toms and the hateful bigots and the scaredy-cats and say, “Enough is enough!”

We had the chance, but did we blow it?  This time, maybe.

But this fight, like any other, will take time.  It will take time for people to accept the idea that not everyone makes love in the same manner.  It will take time for people to warm up to the idea of allowing men to marry men and women to marry women.  This may be the end of this particular campaign, but this is certainly not the end of the story.  Like any other civil rights fight, this one will be largely uphill, and will have to be won one conversation, one heart, one mind at a time.

Just listen to this guy.  He’s got it right:

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4 Responses to “The State of Maine is an embarrassment.”


  1. It will take time, but I am confident it will happen. I just posted something with data showing why this civil right is inevitable, and also making a comment similar to yours about the irony of Maine’s state motto.

    http://thoughtbasket.com/2009/11/05/gay-marriage-should-tactics-change/

  2. Tegan McRae Says:

    I can’t imagine living in Maine right now…oh wait, yeah, Arizona did the same damn thing awhile back. It is completely embarrassing to be in a state where you know so many are still against uniting two people in love.

    I hope in a few years, Maine makes the right decisions.
    http://thelastpolka.wordpress.com/

  3. Mardé Says:

    Very well expressed, Minds. It “will have to be won one conversation, one heart, one mind at a time.” I caught that old guy’s speech on my blog too. Maybe a few of his WW2 era contemporaries in Maine were given pause by it, but probably not enough of them heard his speech.

  4. Minds Erased Says:

    Welcome aboard, newcomers.

    Marde – I first saw that old guy on your blog, I hope you don’t mind me piggy-backing.

    This fight ain’t over yet, folks.


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